From vibe to venue in five steps

Spark is substance-first: you match on what someone actually wants from a night out, then talk face-to-face before you ever pick a place.

Set preferences

Dining, Entertainment, or Drinks

Age range and who you're interested in. Vibe tags if you want them. This is what shapes who you meet — not budget.

Match on substance

Browse real answers first, photo after interest

Browse real answers first — what people said about their ideal KC night or their unpopular KC opinion. Interested? You'll see their photo and hear a quick voice hello if they've opted in before anything live.

Two minutes on video

Face stays in frame — that's the rule

Now you talk. If you both like each other, extend up to five more minutes before deciding.

Private yes or no

Neither answer is visible until both are in

You each choose yes or no. The other person only sees your answer once they've made their own.

Pick the place

Filtered by budget and what you both wanted

Mutual yes opens the venue list. Budget only matters here — it helps narrow the Kansas City spots you'll both enjoy.

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